Comment commencer!Nous en avons appris un peu plus sur le petit Nikita et sommes presentement en grand questionnement. C'est une situation difficile! Le petit est beau et interagit facilement avec nous. Cependant, il ne parle pas, pas de son, niet, rien! Le medecin qui etait avec nous a eu beau essayer pendant une heure car les nounous disent qu'il emet des petits mots de temps en temps. Malheureusement elle n'a pas ete capable non plus! Et cela semblait la tracasser... Auparavant pendant l'entrevue, nous avons appris que l'enfant est d'un pere inconnu et que la mere est oligophrene (retardee mental). Je peux vous dire que la lumiere rouge s'intillait dans notre tete. Est-ce transmissible? Est-ce que cela explique son retard au niveau du language ou son retard est du au manque de stimulation a l'orphelina? Qui peut nous le dire...
Le Doctor de TDH nous a dit qu'il etait lent et que son retard au niveau du language l'inquietait particulierement.
Nous sommes tres confus mais nous voulons le voir encore 2 fois demain(10h00 - midi et de 16h-18h) et peut-etre serons nous dans la possibilite de prendre la bonne decision. Pour l'instant c'est le brouillard. On vous encourage a nous ecrire un commentaire.
WHAT'S ON THE BACK SIDE OF THE PICTURE...
We finally have met with little Nikita. A shy little boy that once he had a little car in his hand accepted us like he knew Anick and I for a long time. Sitting on Anick's lap, he would move the car back and forth on the table with a sure smile on. But that was after we learned that his father is unknown and he was taken away shortly after birth (like both older brother and sister) because his mother was/is diagnose with oligophrenia (mental retardness) and is not capable to raise a child. That raised the red flag instantly in our head. Afterwords, we moved to another room to play more with him. He was interacting a lot with us and Olga, TDH doctor, but it was really difficult to get an eye contact with him. Olga has tried to make him speak during that whole hour but no word, none, nothing, NIET,...
He is 31 months old he should be able to produce words by now taking the fact that in an orphanage they are less stilmulated...nothing but a big laughter when she did the "air plane" with him. The docteur said that she like the way he was interactive but she is worried about his speech "black out". Well we want to see him 1 or 2 more days to see if it was because of the unusual situation and to be able to take the best decision for us and for the child. We have to be happy to make him happy...
Feel free to write any comments, we are a little bit lost here...
